Why people don't have the dating schedule they want.

Two reasons.

Outlook and Lifestyle.

Outlook, how you view yourself and your position in life and the community.

and Lifestyle, the way in which you live or how you live your life.

And they both have an effect on each other.

If your outlook on life for example is, meeting people is hard work and its easier to stay at home. That outlook will influence your lifestyle. You typically wont go out and meet people.

On the same note, if your not interacting with the world then you wont change your outlook of it. You have no need to.

But what if you want new? Because outlook and lifestyle both have an effect on each other, you can use one to diagnose the other.

Your Lifestyle acts like symptoms of your outlook. If your not going out, then what is your outlook, is it easier to stay at home?

What if you did something that you don't usually do, like a friend bought you out, and you enjoyed it. Wouldn't that effect your outlook? In just a small change in your lifestyle.

Sometimes we can think that our actions are us and we tie them in with our identity, im a football supporter for instance. But if I didn't go to watch the football, I wouldn't just com-bust into thin air. I would continue with my life.

 Just because we change our Outlook and Lifestyle doesn't make us any less us.

Hope this helps

Joehann.