Value.

Ever heard the saying...

Why buy the cow when you can get the milk for free?

We'll value is very important in the dating world, and the world of relationships in general.

But to focus on the dating world it does seem that value can be an inherent problem.

Men test out women for value all the time. Men always want more, to push the boundaries and to see how far they can get. They are testing women for their value.

So how do women respond.

Well not having enough value, or charging too much can result in loss of interest.

Women also test men for their value. Trying to find out how committed men are, how emotional, and stable.

Too much of either one equals a loss of interest from the other party. So I think the best advice is to get what you can if you give up value. And understand that this is a part of the two parties trusting each other. Essentially, both parties giving up value is like hurt money in an investment. People are more inclined to take interest and precuation when they will lose out of the situation too.

And that is the point I wish to make. Give up value when the other person gives up theirs.

Someone giving  you attention equals you giving that person attention, if this is indeed what you want. Rewarding behavior.

Regards,

Chris.