Friday, May 20, 2011

What do you talk about...

What do you talk about when your dating?


Anything that involves the mind generally isn't a good topic for social conversation when your out anywhere, especially on a date.

When at work, you want the measurements, figures, facts etc that's great, but leave them there. When your out light hearted social banter is what is called for.

The best conversations I find are like the best dances. You feel like you've had an amazing experience, and you have, but your in the same space, and you don't really know anything about the other person, (facts and figures, job, interests wise etc.).

It's about us as people and that can sometimes get lost in the content.

If you have ever had a great connection with someone you probably don't remember what you talked about, or you can't really explain it to someone else, because its just for you two.

Remember that we are keeping our mind out of our dating sex life, so not being able to remember or explain is a good thing!

Keeping the conversations light, and the courtship/relationship light creates and strengthens bonds between people, and keeps it fun.


This can get a little lost sometimes.

Hope this helps.



Joehann

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